If you’ve ever dreamed of running away together to say “I do” in one of the world’s most iconic cities, eloping in New York City might be exactly what your heart is calling for. Whether you want to keep it simple and spontaneous or plan a stylish and intimate celebration, NYC offers endless options for unforgettable elopements.

From romantic bridges and skyline views to elegant courthouses and charming parks, the city is a perfect backdrop for couples who want to celebrate their love without the stress of a traditional wedding. If you're coming from out of state, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know to legally and beautifully elope in New York City.

Step 1: Choose a Date and NYC Location

The first thing to do is decide when and where you want to elope. Your date will help you determine the season, lighting, and vibe of your day. NYC is beautiful year-round, but each season offers a different mood.

Best Times to Elope in NYC:

Spring (April–June): Blooming trees, mild temperatures, and bright light.
Fall (September–October): Crisp air, gorgeous foliage, and golden-hour sunsets.
Winter (December–February): Snowy city romance and cozy, festive energy.
Summer (July–August): Warm weather and long daylight hours—just be prepared for heat and crowds.

Popular Elopement Locations:

Central Park: Bethesda Terrace, Bow Bridge, Gapstow Bridge, Wagner Cove, and the Ladies Pavilion are iconic for a reason.
Brooklyn Bridge Park: Stunning skyline views, cobblestone streets, and Jane’s Carousel.
Top of the Rock or Empire State Building: Perfect for a skyline-first look or private vow exchange.
The High Line or Washington Square Park: For couples who love urban scenery with greenery.
NYC City Clerk’s Office (Marriage Bureau): A classic choice with vintage-cool energy.

Pro Tip: Scout sunrise or early morning time slots if you want privacy and soft lighting, especially in busier locations like DUMBO or Central Park.

Step 2: Apply for Your New York Marriage License

To legally marry in NYC, you need a New York State marriage license, even if you're coming from out of state or abroad.

How to Get It:

Start Online: Visit NYC Cupid and complete the online application. You’ll receive a confirmation number.
In-Person Appointment: Both parties must appear together at one of the five borough Marriage Bureau locations (most couples go to the Manhattan office at 141 Worth Street).
Bring ID: Valid photo identification (passport, driver's license, etc.) for both people is required. You do not need to be a NY resident or U.S. citizen.

Marriage License Facts:

Fee: $35 (credit/debit card or money order)
There’s a 24-hour waiting period before you can marry
The license is valid for 60 days
You do not need to be married at the same bureau where you apply

Travel Tip: If you're coming from out of state, plan to arrive at least two days before your ceremony to allow time for the waiting period and any unexpected delays.

Step 3: Book an Officiant

You’ll need someone authorized by New York to legally marry you. The good news? You have options depending on the style of elopement you want.

Officiant Options:

City Clerk Ceremony: Super simple and sweet—about 2–5 minutes. You’ll need an appointment, and ceremonies are conducted Monday through Friday.
Private Officiant: Choose from dozens of NYC-based officiants who specialize in elopements. Many offer custom vow writing, unity rituals, and even bilingual services.
Friend or Family Member: Want someone close to you to officiate? They’ll need to be ordained online (through a service like Universal Life Church) and register with the City Clerk ahead of time.

Note: All ceremonies must include one witness (age 18+). Your photographer can be your witness if you're eloping alone.

Step 4: Plan the Details That Make It Feel Like You

Elopements can be just as intentional and special as large weddings, and NYC offers endless possibilities to personalize your day.

Vendors to Consider:

Photographer: NYC is home to incredible photographers who specialize in candid, editorial, or documentary-style elopements. Find someone whose style you love and set up a meeting with them! I always say it’s important to meet the photographer before you book to make sure you’ll work together well and can share the same vision! It’s surprising how much this affects your special day!
Florals: Whether it’s a bouquet, boutonnière, or flower crown, NYC florists offer pick-up, delivery, or elopement packages.
Hair & Makeup: Many stylists will travel to your hotel or Airbnb. Book early, especially for weekends.
Transportation: Think vintage taxi, classic black car, Uber, or even subway rides for iconic photos.
Wardrobe: You don’t have to wear white—NYC elopements are known for bold, fashion-forward, or vintage outfits. Pack wisely if you’re traveling.

Step 5: Secure Any Permits (If Needed)

You typically do not need a permit for a small elopement with minimal setup. But there are exceptions:

You Need a Permit If:

You have more than 20 people
You’re bringing chairs, arches, or large decorations
You’re using professional camera equipment like tripods
You’re setting up in a high-traffic park area

How to Get One:

Visit NYC Parks Permit Portal and apply online at least 30 days in advance. Most permits are around $25–$35.

Note: The city does not “reserve” space, even with a permit. It allows you to hold your ceremony, but you’ll still be in a public area.

Step 6: Say “I Do” in the City That Never Sleeps

This is the moment you’ve been waiting for. Whether it's a quiet vow exchange beneath the trees or a city hall ceremony surrounded by skyscrapers, soak it all in.

Ceremony Checklist:

Bring your marriage license and ID
Have your witness present and ready to sign
Bring a copy of your vows (and tissues!)
Coordinate a timeline with your photographer! They will help you choose sunrise or golden hour, whether you want getting ready images, or just the ceremony and where to do portraits.

Bonus Idea: Celebrate afterward with dinner at one of NYC’s romantic restaurants (think L’Artusi, The River Café, or RH Rooftop), or toast with bagels and champagne in your hotel room.

Step 7: File the Marriage License

After your ceremony, your officiant will complete and sign your license and return it to the City Clerk. You don’t have to do anything—just wait for the official certificate in the mail.

Marriage Certificate Timeline:

Mailed within 20–30 days
Expedited service available for an additional fee
You can order additional certified copies for legal name changes

Pro Tips for Out-of-State Couples

Stay Central: Choose accommodations near your ceremony location to minimize travel stress (SoHo, Williamsburg, or Midtown are great hubs).
Bring Weather Gear: NYC weather changes fast. Bring an umbrella, stylish coat, or backup shoes.
Build in Buffer Time: Whether you’re riding the subway or waiting for an Uber, NYC runs on its own clock. Leave space for delays.
Don’t Forget the Fun: Add a photoshoot around the city, visit a museum or rooftop bar, or do a post-elopement brunch. Make it a full NYC adventure.

Final Thoughts

Eloping in New York City is more than just saying “I do”—it’s about creating an intimate, intentional experience that reflects your story. Whether you want something spontaneous and simple or styled and cinematic, the city offers the perfect mix of energy, romance, and magic.

With a little planning and the right people by your side, you’ll walk away not only married, but with unforgettable memories made in one of the most iconic places on Earth.

Need Help Planning or Capturing Your NYC Elopement?
As a wedding and an elopement photographer, I specialize in helping couples design, navigate, and capture unforgettable New York City elopement days. From permit advice to perfect photo timing, I’ve got you covered—reach out anytime!

How to Elope in New York City - Even If You Are Coming Out of State: A Step-by-Step Guide